What He/She REALLY Hears When You Talk

The ability to to listen and then to actually hear are two separate and distinct pieces to this puzzle.


  1. We-You-He-She-They all have to be tuned into ACTIVE LISTENING (as opposed to or instead of passive listening)
  2. Then we have to contend with SELECTIVE HEARING (This means that we all live in our own little worlds and that often the same words or phrases can mean two different things to two different people)
  3. Start confirming with one another that INDEED WHAT WAS SAID WAS HEARD AND TAKEN IN by repeating back or summarising what the person speaking just finished saying.
  4. Something like, “..’If I heard you correctly, what you just said was…____________.’  Is that accurate?”

And there is so much more to it.  Like the Yin-Yang mix, cultural background, education, household environment, parental role-models and each person’s own personal experiences with love, relationships, interpersonal dialogue and our own private little “Idaho” individualized worlds!  ENJOY the VIDEO!


4 Core Sacred Soulmate Signals

Connection     Compatibility     Communication     Chemistry

These are the 4 Core Sacred Soulmate Signals.  They are a living, breathing and dynamic foundation for sacred & intimate partnerships, as well as ALL our relationships.  The 4 Core Sacred Soulmate Signals are keys that open the doorways to living in True Lasting Love.  They open the doors to True Lasting Love from the inside out so you can find and attract in your Ideal Dream Partner (Partnership) and Soulmate.

FYI.  There are actually 7 Sacred Soulmate Signals.  The additional three are Sex, Spirituality and Synchronicity.  Let’s start with those Core 4 and glide into all 7 Sacred Soulmate Signals!  

Enjoy the Video!

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Why Men Pull-Push Away


The Pull Away & Push Away after getting close or getting intimate is a classic get close then pull back dynamic that many many many end up using and practicing.  Why?


Men get close and then pull away or push back or even just plain vanish because..

  • Fear of Intimacy, Authenticity & any number of other “not-being-enough”-type beliefs
  • Confusion
  • Criticism
  • Rejection
  • Feeling Hurt
  • Being called out for inappropriate behavior
  • Not being Heard – Feeling Ignored
  • Fears of getting too close because of issues of Adequacy (lack of)
  • Lying & Fear of getting discovered – getting caught
  • Having stuff come up & not knowing what to do about it – so run or hide or vanish solution
  • Transference or Externalization of Past Issues projected onto current experience/situation


The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place. ~ George Bernard Shaw


Click Here Watch Video – Find Out Why Men Pull Away After Getting Close

How to Recognize Your Soulmate

Want to know how to recognize your Soulmate?


There are some great ways to read, perceive, hear and tell what some of the more obvious and common tells on signals and signs are.  So that when you hear or see or feel something and then say to yourself, “hmmm, I wonder…is this really.. _____ (fill in the blank) ?

In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasure.  For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.  ~  Khalil Gibran

When you discover those special moments and even find them happening to you, now you won’t wondering what just happened.

You’ll be wondering..”Did I just Meet The One?”


Click Here Watch Video – How to Recognize Your Soulmate

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